Monday, December 29, 2008

Say Yes Because You Want To

The word yes.
Every person says this word at some point in their life. But is it for the right reason?
I find many people saying yes because they're afraid of no. They can't find it in themselves to say the word no. This is usually because they think that they care too much about the other person to disappoint them with that simple, yet very strong word. So they say yes to the person. But guess what?
IT NEVER ENDS WELL.
This person says yes to the other person, only to let them down in the long run. Personally, I don't like it when I'm lied to in that situation. I appreciate the thought, but people need to know whether you really want to or not. Don't be afraid of saying no. Just say yes if you truly mean it.
Say yes because you want to, not because you think you have to.

1 comment:

  1. I have to say, you're pretty insiteful! And i agree, if u only say yes because u feel bad then it's just hurting them in the long run.

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