Saturday, February 7, 2009

Don't Let The Panic Bring You Down

Jon Foreman's "Love Isn't Made" has really talked to me. Well, not that I didn't know about what he was saying already. It's just a song for me to kinda go with and agree with, because I most definitely agree with what he's saying.

"Love isn't made. Love doesn't sell or pay. But we buy and sell our love away. Don't let the panic bring you down."

When it comes to relationships and love in our society today, in my eyes, it seems as if that is happening. People find themselves "making" love for others, when love needs to be created. You can't look at someone and just decide that you want to "make" love for them and then just go with that. You need to look at them, and if you love them, you'll know. It's a feeling, it's not just in your head.

You can't buy or sell your love.

And another thing that I wanted to touch on:
Yeah, of course a relationship can't be perfect. There's going to be hard times, there always will be. It may be that just one of the people is having a problem, or maybe you both are with eachother. But the majority of problems can be fixed. And I think that most younger couples, specifically middle school through college, use those minor problems as an excuse to end what they have. Now given, you shouldn't even be dating in middle school because you don't even understand what it's about then. But that's a topic for another day.
But I know what a relationship is about. And if there's a problem, you need to try and fix it.

So don't let the panic bring you down. If it's a little bit of space that you need, make sure the other person knows that's why you aren't talking to them as much. Or whatever problem it is, make sure that the other person isn't left hanging trying to figure out what it is.

Don't let the panic bring you down.

2 comments:

  1. "It's a feeling, it's not just in your head." that is genius! who said that?

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  2. well the part that you quoted, I thought of that.
    I was inspired to write this blog by Jon Foreman's "Love Isn't Made"
    But that part that you specfically quoted came from MY head haha

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